11.16.2012

Five Minute Friday: Stay

Good Morning.
It's Friday in November, just a week before Thanksgiving! What a great time of year.
I have a busy day ahead so I'm starting my day off right:
- #shereadstruth meet up with some of my good friends
- #FMF post
- Last night's Grey's Anatomy and work email before heading to the office

So...before I can get on to the dramatics that are Grey's Anatomy (and work email...HA!) I'm going to get my write on.

Today's Word: Stay

Lisa Loeb.
That is the first thing that comes to mind when I think of the word 'stay.'
For the life of me I cannot remember any lyrics to the song I used to watch on repeat on MTV, but I do know it was heart-wrenching. And held so much longing. Because isn't that the definition of 'stay'?

Think about all the ways we use this word:
'Stay here.'
'Why stay together?'
'I can't stay here anymore.'
'Please stay with me.'
'I want you to stay.'
'Won't you stay here?'

It seems in each situation we are longing for the steadfast company of another.

I'm getting married a year from now.
'Stay' sounds like a marriage word to me.
My hope is that when I do get married, we 'stay' together.
That doesn't always happen.
Neither one of us 'stayed' despite previous attempts.

But when that day comes where we declare our love for each other in front of our family and friends, my hope is that we also declare our 'stay.'
Our steadfastness.

'Let's stay together.'
'I am so glad you decided to stay.'
'Let's always stay this way.'

What feelings does the word 'stay' evoke to you? Do remember that Lisa Loeb song? Whatever happened to her anyway?
 
Try out 5 minute Friday on your own, then head over to Lisa-Jo Baker's blog and check out what stay means to others.

10 comments:

  1. I wish you the best with your marriage Nicole! Staying is so often such a hard choice in marriage. It's so much easier to find the problems than the friendship and beauty in a relationship.

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    1. Thank you so much! I agree- there is beauty to be found in good and bad times.

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  2. I love your posts! When Devin and I got married we used the John Legend song "Stay with you". Its a beautiful song about staying through the tough times and the good. Everytime I hear it, I smile. I wish you the best in everything you do birthday buddy! You are an inspiration.

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    1. I had to look up those lyrics- I LOVE them! Especially this: And there will be heartaches and pains, yes it will
      But through it all, we will remain
      In this life, we all know
      Friends may come, and they may go
      Through the years I know
      I will stay
      Thanks for reading and stopping by fellow May 17-er. I feel honored to be an inspiration to someone! I'm just a gal- sharing my life all over the internet...HA

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  3. After being married for 16 years, To Stay or NOT to Stay isn't even in our thinking or vocabulary. If we've made it through these 16 years, we can make it 16 more. And 16 after that... That is what I hope for you - that staying is always easy, and when it's not you do anyway. Best wishes!

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    1. Best. Advice. Ever. Thanks Kimberly. :)

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  4. I love the idea of 5-minute friday! I'm doing it. Right now. Well, after I tell you that I really enjoyed your post, that is ;)

    The idea of "staying" in a marriage can be a sticky one, for me. I know my bf and I have had the conversation before, that we'd never want to keep the other if they didn't want to stay. Yet, we do plan on getting married once we have the money for it. Marriage (in my mind) is saying that I want you in my life; and, like you said, it's telling the other person that "I hope you stay." I hope that made some sense.

    Thanks for sharing your thoughts!

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    1. I agree with you- keeping another person around if they don't want to stay would be hard- but I sort of think that is what marriage is. You are making a commitment to stay no matter what- even if for a season you don't feel like it. It's for life!
      Thanks for stopping by EvenMe!

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  5. Don't remember the song but pretty certain that you'll be staying! From experience, I can say, it is worth the stay!!!

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  6. Beautifully put!
    I didn't write this past Friday (the 5 min challenge) ... I just couldn't get words to come to me:)

    However, the only thing that did come to my mind was how 'stay' is a very improtant word to keep inside the marriage relationship.

    God Bless,
    Deanna
    @ http://theheartshunger.blogspot.com

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